7 hours ago
What's happen when when we Never say "NO?"
When we're continually saying "YES" and Prioritizing other people's needs over our own, something shifts inside us and the following can happen👇
1.)WE CAN GET TAKEN FOR GRANTED.. Sometimes the people in our life are used to us cleaning up their messes, or doing everything for them.It may not be a spiteful thing,but if we're always there to take charge of their baggage,they start to expect it.
2.)OUR FEELINGS CAN BE INVALID. We take everyone else's thoughts, feelings and Views above our own :
3.)WE'RE EASILY BECOMES ENABLERS.. If we start take over the responsibility of someone depend on us,who really needs to take care of them,we're not doing doing anyone any favors.
4.)WE CAN LOSE FOCUS.. Saying "YES" all the time get overwhelming and that can lead to us becoming unfocused.When we're unfocused balance goes right out the window.We must decide what takes priority.
5.)WE BECOME UNAVAILABLE TO SAY YES TO IMPORTANT THINGS.. If we're always doing things for others, we may miss out on something really good for ourselves.. #no #yes #priority #granted #learning #important #hapana #ndio #inspiration #inspirationaltalk
1 day ago
Taking Life For Granted Or: The Fuel You Need To Start Something Great "Look around, look around at how lucky we are to be alive right now." This got stuck in my head after listening to the Hamilton soundtrack. I'm sure it means lucky to be alive rather than dead on a battlefield - it is relatively hard to follow having not seen the show, as well as competing with a five-month-old finding his own voice whilst driving in the car - but I do love this quote.
It is amazing to be living right now. So many things we take for granted growing up and so many more things the next generation will take for granted. How many hours of our teen years were wasted feeling sorry for ourselves despite having more than most humans in history before us? It is amazing that we have electricity, that we can make light at the flick of a switch, let alone that we carry around a pocket-sized device every day that can instantly connect us to anyone else in the world in any format we want: text, voice, video. We can talk to computers and they understand some of what we are saying - that is amazing.
But how easy is it to take for granted? Cursing when the lightbulb goes pop or when there is a power cut for a few hours. Cursing at Siri when she thinks you said "plum" rather than "mom." Cursing the crappy Wi-Fi when a Skype call drops for work.
Look around - how lucky we are to be alive right now. Right now, in this age, before all the dead dinosaur juice is depleted and there is a massive power shift in global politics and monetary policy. Before the water levels rise and we live on smaller and smaller islands. Before our food loses all nutrition from people chasing short-term profit targets.
This is the best time to be alive right now. We do not know if it is going to get better than this. Do you really want to be the person that did not try to follow their dreams during the best time to be alive? Take action today. --- If you liked this post, please give it a double tap ❤️and follow our channel 🕺
1 day ago
Happy moment is always #granted